Children might
develop language skills only if they have many opportunities to talk, listen and make use of
language to solve problems and learn about the world.
Long before your child enters school, you can do many things to help her develop language. You may:
Give your child opportunities to play. Play is how children learn. It is the natural way for them to explore, to become creative, to learn to contruct
up and tell stories and to develop social skills. Play also helps children learn to solve problems--for example, if her wagon tips over, a child must figure out how to apprehend it
upright again. When
they stack up blocks, children learn about colors, numbers, geometry, shapes and balance. Playing with others helps children learn how to negotiate.
Support and guide your child as she learns a new activity. Parents might
help children learn how to do new things by "scaffolding," or guiding their efforts. For example, as you and your toddler put together a puzzle, you might point to a piece and say, "I think this is the piece we need for this space. Why do not
you try it?" Then have the child pick up the piece and place it correctly. As the child
becomes more aware of how the pieces fit into the puzzle, you can gradually withdraw your support.
Talk to your child, start at birth. Your baby needs to hear your voice. Voices from a television or radio can not
take the place of your voice, because they dont respond to your babys coos and babbles.
You child needs to know that when he makes a certain sound, for example, "mamamamamama," that his mother will response--she will smile and talk back to him. The more you talk to your baby, the more he will learn and the more he will have to talk about as he gets older.
Everyday activities provide opportunities to talk, sometimes in detail, about whats happening around him. As you give your child a bath, for
example, you might say, "First lets stick the plug in the drain. Now lets
turn on the water. Do you want your rubber duck? Thats a sizeably effective idea. Look, the duck is yellow, just like the rubber duck we saw on Sesame
Street."